I think that this is about being comfortable in your own skin. There is only one of each and every one of us and we are as unique as our finger prints. It's sometimes hard to believe when we are encouraged to be like everyone else and fit in to a conforming group but it's worth the effort to discover how I am unique and you are unique and live our lives accordingly. To be our own person is one of the most difficult things to do but in the end the most rewarding cause at the end of it all you'll feel much better having lived your own life than someone elses.